Update
I RMA'd the card and got a non-ref xfx instead. The problem is pretty much fixed and works flawlessly for the past hour with my monster adapter. Didn't bother to try my accell or monoprice adapter. Hopefully it stays working
Look like that diamond was a dud. I do miss the quiet fan on the diamond... the one on the xfx sounds like a jet engine compared to that diamond... Oh well, fair trade off i suppose.
Offcourse it would be really cool if you tried the accel and monoprice (for the record) :D
In the mean time: if i don't touch the eyefinity-group settings the Apple is working 100%
But now with my dual 5970 i have to turn of xfire regulary to get some games working... This messes up the Eyefinity group and i am not able to get the group right again with the Apple, i have to switch resolution by using the Accel :evil: and this gives blanking.. So i have to install the Apple again :doh
Just ordered the HP VGA adapter, just for kicks.. Will keep you posted.